Oh God, you’re getting into the late 30s now and starting the maybe baby debate. Should I or shouldn’t I? Do I want a baby for the right reasons? Like one client said “no-one regrets having a baby but there are lots of people that regret not having a baby” as she tries to decide. It’s such…

In the 35+ years that I have worked with women, one of the most often used words is that of “unconditional” love in describing their relationship to their most intimate lover.  Unfortunately, most of the women with whom I have worked were or are in abusive or unhealthy relationships over the course of their life.…

One Piece of Counter-Intuitive Advice From A Relationship Coach. When your marriage no longer feels like a safe haven and you feel that you need to build resilience just to spend the weekend or downtime together, your mind goes into overdrive, looking for solutions to the problem, creating plans and strategies and generally exhausting itself.…

7 years ago Caroline underwent her own acrimonious divorce and realised that there was little or no help out there to help you through the emotional rollercoaster of divorce. You could pay a lawyer thousands to help with the legalities but what about the emotions and the loss of identity. Caroline was left in over…

  Sick of just getting through the holiday season?   Being pulled in a million different directions? Calendar already full till the end of the year? Or have you said NO to everyone and everything because you just can’t take it anymore?   There is a middle ground and that ground is called Happiness…Yours. The…

As an animal communicator, there are some things I need to be aware of not to fall for. One of them is fixing things. We as species have a need to “fix” things. When something is broken, we repair it. When somebody is sick, we heal them. When death is near, we try to prolong…

In my work as animal communicator I come across these recurring themes, things that come up over and over again. One of those themes is mirroring. When I send in the report from a session a lot of times the owner responds: Are you sure you read my pet? Or did you read me? The first…